Often times when people are listing reasons for why they were or are attracted to another person the quality of mystic or mystery will come up. There is something about that person that intrigues us, makes us want to know more about them. We want to spend time with that person, we want to share our soul and delve into their soul.
People are extremely complex creatures. There is a myriad of components that makes each of us who we are. Part of the excitement of a new relationship and part of maintaining a present relationship is embracing that mystery. Paying attention and asking questions. The desire to know more and with that, know them.
We want to know things like what makes them happy. What values are important to them. We want to know what makes them tick. What excites them. What are they passionate about. What moves them to action. What makes them blue. We want to know their dreams and desires. We want to know their fears, so that we can comfort them.
It's my belief that no matter how long you're with a person, you'll never totally know your partner. So it's important to hang on to that curious of the mysterious quality. To keep getting to know that person, your partner, keep things fresh, alive, and possibly less mysterious. But remember to always ... always remain curious.
Did an air of mystery play into your love life when you met your significant other? Does it still play a part in your daily lives? Are you still making discoveries about one another? Share your secrets on keeping this art alive.
It's my belief that no matter how long you're with a person, you'll never totally know your partner. So it's important to hang on to that curious of the mysterious quality. To keep getting to know that person, your partner, keep things fresh, alive, and possibly less mysterious. But remember to always ... always remain curious.
Did an air of mystery play into your love life when you met your significant other? Does it still play a part in your daily lives? Are you still making discoveries about one another? Share your secrets on keeping this art alive.
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